Help….I am truly sending out a life line and I need help. I am sending this hesitantly because I don’t want to be judged harshly but I am at my wits end.


I started working on a project with a man on my job. This was a major deal so we spent countless hours together day and oftentimes late nights. He is such an incredible man, chivalrous, thoughtful and everything a girl could want. He is very attentive to me and we ended up slipping up. Long story short I have fallen madly in love with this guy. The problem is….I’m a first lady of a church. Yes my husband is a pastor. Now I feel the pressure to stay with my husband because of the church. I don’t want to make my husband seem like a monster because he’s not but he is more married to the church than me.